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As maternity leave nears its end, many parents opt for a childminder to care for their baby. But how do you choose the right nanny? Discover our tips for finding that perfect match who will take care of your little one (almost) as well as you do!
1. Choose a childminder near you
It seems obvious, but in the stress of finding a childminder, it's tempting to overlook it. And yet, how convenient it is to drop your child off right near your home before heading to work in the morning! Another option: a nanny close to your workplace or your partner's. But be aware, this means that only one parent will be responsible for all the transportation…
2. Observe the surroundings
Where will the children be looked after? Will they be able to explore the whole house freely, or will they have their own room? Are there enough toys available for all ages? Will other people (the nanny's partner or children) be present at the same time as your child? Is the house safe? Be observant and ask questions!
3. Find out about the activities offered
Registered childminders are all affiliated with a childminder support service (RAM) which generally offers activities for toddlers Several times a week. Does your nanny go there? Does she take the children to the park or for walks?
4. Ask how many children will be cared for with yours.
Left alone at their childminder's, your child risks getting bored after the first few months. Conversely, if there are too many children present, the childminder may struggle to give each child the attention they need. It's up to you to decide what's the right balance for your baby!
5. Choose a childminder who aligns with your parenting principles.
Is your nanny inflexible about discipline while you're more relaxed? Are you careful to follow your child's natural rhythms, but the nanny insists everyone eats and sleeps at the same time? Don't kid yourself: it's going to cause problems! Even if everyone can make an effort, you won't change your nanny's way of life and work. It's therefore essential to agree on the fundamental principles from the outset.
6. Talk about money
Hourly rate, meal and household allowances, holiday pay, monthly salary… The terms of the contract must be perfectly clear from the outset. And be aware that prices can vary considerably from one nanny to another!
7. Don't hesitate to address sensitive issues
Does the nanny agree to look after your child when they are sick? Is she flexible with her hours? Will you be able to arrive late on busy evenings at work? Does she choose her own vacation dates, or are they negotiable to suit everyone? It's best to discuss these questions openly from the start to avoid any unpleasant surprises later on.
8. Meet the candidates with your child
After an initial interview between parents and childminders, don't hesitate to request a second interview with your preferred candidates so your baby can meet them. Observe carefully: does the nanny immediately approach your little one? Does she know how to put them at ease? Is she affectionate? Does your child seem to like her?
9. Go with your gut…
Beyond all the concrete arguments in favor of a childminder, the most important thing remains your intuition: you are going to entrust her with what you hold most dear, so it is essential that you feel comfortable and confident with her!
